What's Love?

I love my friend's facebook shout-out, saying:

"We ignore the ones who adore us,
Adore the ones who ignore us,
Love the ones that hurt us &
hurt the ones that love us."

How sarcastic Love can be right? And it's so true isn't it? It's exactly what happened to us.
So, at the end of the day, what's true love anyway?

Why do we ignore, or feel annoyed by the ones who adore us? We have our admirers, people who cares and loves us for all sorts of reasons. They show us how much they care for us, even willing to wait or sacrifice for us. But we felt annoyed about that, or rather 'not feel touched' at all. Why are we like that?

And surprisingly instead, we would fall for the ones who kinda ignore us, or the ones who doesn't really care about us. Why? Is it because it's challenging? Do we treat that as a challenge?

And finally when we fall for each other, they hurt our feelings. Or i would say, it's because we care too much and take the relationship too seriously that we become paranoid, somehow? I do not know. We tend to think that our love ones hurt us, but what can we expect? We should not expect others to do exactly what we want them to do; or be someone we expect them to be. At the end of the day, Love is just so hard......

At last, try to love with all our heart and cherish all the ones who loves us, because they love us for who we are, that that's really sweet and lovely.